Wednesday is the charm

I can now see why Mr thinks Wednesdays are the best day of the week as he starts preparing to come back to MalaLand.

Recently, I have become antsy to have him return and by Wednesdays I am fed up. I cope with life (not that there is a choice) but knowing he comes home Thursday gives me a time line to keep going.

Which is bizarre as I was a single mum for more than ten years and had no choice to shoulder a ton of responsibility on my shoulders but knowing that I don't have to do that any more, removes a lot of pressure.

Don't get me wrong...I enjoy my aloneness...guess there is no pleasing me now is there?

Ah well...

28 Comments to Wednesday is the charm

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- Bushka ^Pro
- Bushka
- 2009-11-04 @ 11:02:20
Hard to please? I shouldn't have thought so....xx
- - malakeas ^Pro
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  - 2009-11-04 @ 11:39:27
  I am easy going most of the time. Guess I miss my husband when he is away and Wednesday's are the limit.
  - - Bushka ^Pro
    - Bushka
    - 2009-11-04 @ 11:54:59
    He'll be back on the morrow...x
    - - malakeas ^Pro
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      - 2009-11-04 @ 12:01:31
      *beams*
      
      Yes! And I can hardly wait! xx
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- brokendownangel ^Pro
- 2009-11-04 @ 11:45:15
It is lovely to keep having weekly reunions though hun, the rot doesn't set in when they go away all the time and you look forward to his return, but when he is away you get 'me' time - best of both worlds there x
- - malakeas ^Pro
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  - 2009-11-04 @ 11:50:07
  Morning!
  
  I think I am lucky with the life I have and you are right...it is the best of both worlds. xxx
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- pritam
- 2009-11-04 @ 12:09:44
Hope u have nice thursday
- - malakeas ^Pro
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  - 2009-11-05 @ 01:00:58
  Thank you!
  
  I had a great day. Hope you did too.
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- janetweightreed
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- 2009-11-04 @ 12:35:36
I can understand your feelings completely. When I was married, Wednesday always meant a wonderful weekend coming up with Bill homexxx
- - malakeas ^Pro
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  - 2009-11-05 @ 01:06:20
  It is amazing how we attach meaning to the simple yet important moments in our life (such as Wednesdays and the men coming home) x
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- BanterNotIncluded
- 2009-11-04 @ 13:02:25
Mate I totally understand... I've not seen my bf properly for at least a week now and I'm missing him terribly. However he's off for 3 weeks in bed and I KNOW that I'll get mad at him for being under my feet... We can never find a healthy compromise thanks to the daily binds of life! x
- - malakeas ^Pro
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  - 2009-11-05 @ 00:57:09
  I hear you as you hear me....gah! Three weeks underfoot would make me scream. Mr will be here for a week next week and by the next Sunday, I will be putting him on a plane myself. Hahahahahahaha
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- xmillyxxx ^Pro
- 2009-11-04 @ 13:10:59
And there's me begging for some 'me' time! But Im sure if I got it..Id be moaning that I was lonely..No pleasing me either hun..It's a woman thing I reckon

But they do say 'absense makes the heart grow fonder' ..And think how sweet it will be making up for lost time

Have a fab day..And talk to you tonight xx
- - malakeas ^Pro
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  - 2009-11-05 @ 01:08:12
  You are a busy woman, spouse and a mum of two girls so I would want some me time too my friend.
  
  And I loved chatting with you tonight. Makes my week it does. xx
  - - xmillyxxx ^Pro
    - 2009-11-05 @ 09:22:33
    I love my weekly calls from you.. I was just gutted my phone died! Next week.. Im gunna make sure no one touches the phone before hand! I'll chop thier ears off if I gotta
    
    Loves ya xxxx
    - - malakeas ^Pro
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      - 2009-11-05 @ 12:06:51
      No worries hun. That point is we chatted and will do so again. YAY! xxxx
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- denzil85
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- 2009-11-04 @ 14:49:30
A little alone time is a good thing I think, too much of it isn't so good though. I found that in Germany I enjoyed being on my own for a while because the shyness/awkwardness of living with people I didn't know did make it easier for me to live in my room. But there came a time when I needed contact with other people. x
- - malakeas ^Pro
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  - 2009-11-05 @ 01:11:11
  True my friend. There is time for aloneness and then time for socializing. x
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- paulinemom
- 2009-11-04 @ 15:36:23
Yes well....

The biggest welcome is.....
- - malakeas ^Pro
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  - 2009-11-05 @ 01:09:03
  That's lovely! Thank you my friend. xxxx
  - - paulinemom
    - 2009-11-05 @ 14:33:48
    Yes soon as I saw it I thought of you and Mr.
    P xx
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- sweetymon
- 2009-11-04 @ 16:37:48
It's hard to find a balance, you two seem to be a perfectly happy couple. xx
- - malakeas ^Pro
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  - 2009-11-05 @ 01:11:57
  Mon, I loves Mr and he loves me. We are a pair and can't imagine life without the other. xx
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- pompeycaulkhead
- 2009-11-04 @ 20:35:27
Awww You are just so loved up. Always makes me smile xx
- - malakeas ^Pro
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  - 2009-11-05 @ 01:13:05
  Thank you! We have been together over 18+ years and still love one another! Go us. x
  - - pompeycaulkhead
    - 2009-11-05 @ 14:23:24
    No worries. Yeah go you xx
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- Neonjake
- 2009-11-06 @ 04:30:34
Hubby used to work 4x10 and come home on Thursdays, that was always the best day of the week...I miss Thursdays.
jake
- - malakeas ^Pro
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  - 2009-11-06 @ 11:57:58
  I bet you miss Thursdays.
  
  (((hugs)))
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